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Sad - April 26th 2017, 02:10 PM

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I didn't know where to put this, so feel free to move it...

I feel really sad. I feel really ugly. And idek.
I told myself I would never hurt myself or starve myself again because I didn't deserve that. But I only carried this positivity for a few days. Whenever I look in the mirror...my face is just so ugly and fat and...idek
The way I see myself changes all the time which is confusing. One minute I look cute, then really ugly. Idk why. It makes me cry. I look in the mirror and feel so sad and want to cry. Why aren't I pretty like other girls? What's wrong with me?

Plus, I still really like the boy. I have done since last year. He doesn't even know I exist. It hurts. It makes me feel so bad and sad and ugly.
He is in one of my classes now (yay) so maybe that'll help me get over him. Idk. But it's only once a week and we have only 2 weeks left. So I only have 2 lessons with him. I want him to notice me. I want him to like me again. I know that that will not happen.
I want to get over him so bad. I can't stop thinking about him. I hate it.

I was even crying on my own birthday because of all this. On my birthday.

Idek what I want here. I just want to let this out
Thank you for reading.
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Re: Sad - April 27th 2017, 09:24 AM

Thank you for writing.

Does this boy you like know you like him?

He might be really happy to know! If he's a truly nice guy.

(If he brushes you off, then he's not a nice guy, and you're better off.)

Maybe pass him a note? Or ask a friend to ask him for you? Or pass a note saying you'd like to talk with him? Or ask for his cell # and text him? Or ask for his Facebook? Some way you and him can start messaging? (Oh I just love it when people get together!)
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Re: Sad - April 27th 2017, 03:08 PM

I hope writing this made you feel a little bit better.
I know how hard it can be to tell someone you like them. If you're confident enough to do so, it's great! However, it's also perfectly fine if you aren't. In this case, I would suggest contacting him without admitting your feelings just yet. Try texting him or talking to him at school. It can be something very casual: a chat about school or the last book you've read - it would be awesome if you found some interests or hobbies you share.
I would recommend reaching out to him personally, not via a friend; although it's up to you, of course.
Keep us up to date with what's going on!
Hope it'll turn out alright. Take care,

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