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Therapist leaving in 2 weeks but i hate him - April 28th 2017, 11:30 PM

Ok I don't hate him but like he makes me mad almost every time.
Today I had an emotional outburst because he kept putting words in my mouth and guessing things. He keeps wanting to talk about the friendship drama that I already took care of. I wanted to talk about how I've been feeling recently and he just wanted to talk about how this drama is my fault. Well, he didn't say it like that, but he kept saying how I keep doing this and that and how I'm avoiding confrontation and all this stuff when it's already resolved!
I already spoke to him about him not listening and me not being heard and all this mess and he apologized for it but he keeps doing it!
I feel like he trivializes every little detail. He makes me feel like I have to not see it in the way I see it but see all the possibility there could be and if I do that it'll just increase my anxiety!!
I feel almost infantasiced by him. As if I'm a child who knows nothing about anything or nothing about social cues or whatnot. He acts like I have no goals and that I'm not determined to do anything. He acts like me choosing my battles is a bad thing.
For example in the friendship thing I chose to be polite and detach myself from the friendship quietly. But to him, I have to fight and be in conflict and everything! And me slowly and politely detaching myself from the friendship is me being fake??? Me sacrificing whatever?? I don't get it.
I would ask for a new one but he's leaving in 2 weeks anyways and I only see him once a week. I just don't wanna talk to him anymore because he's annoying and trivializes everything I say.
When I told him how I felt he said "sorry you feel upset" which is a non-apology. He doesn't know what he's doing.
I just want the 2 weeks to go and me not to see him anymore.


THE POINT OF SINGULARITY IS NOTHING AS NOTHING BEGAN EVERYTHING
PULSING IN THE EXPAND CONSUME WITHOUT BARRIER OR BORDER
IT IS DARK BECAUSE IT IS THE DARKNESS IT IS OVER BECAUSE IT IS THE END
THERE IS NO SENTRY BECAUSE NONE DARE APPROACH
IT HAS NEVER BEEN AND IT IS ALL THAT EVER WAS
AT THE CENTER YOU DO NOT FIND THE ANSWER
YOU DO NOT FIND YOURSELF THERE IS NO CENTER AND THERE IS NO YOU THERE IS ONLY MADNESS
WE ARE ALL HERE NOW.
WE ARE ALL HERE.
WE ARE.

   
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Re: Therapist leaving in 2 weeks but i hate him - April 29th 2017, 07:05 AM

I hope you get someone new.

He doesn't sound like a good match for you.
   
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