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Unhappy compulsive lying - May 1st 2010, 05:09 AM

Hi, I have something very important to talk about and that is the fact that i know i am a compulsive lier. I have done it a lot since i was raised on lies by my family. I know that dosen't give me any excuse to do it but i have been going to therapy every two weeks to work on only this topic. Some of the lies I have told have been prettyout big like I told one where I had aids when i first started coming here. I have also lied about my grandma raping me, my grandma killing herself, and my girlfriend killing herself. And also about being in the ICU when i wasen't.
I know these are all horibale.
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Re: compulsive lying - May 1st 2010, 05:22 AM

Hey chandler,
I am glad to hear you have been going to therapy. Congratulations on admitting. I am quite proud of you
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Re: compulsive lying - May 1st 2010, 07:04 AM

I think it's very brave to come out with this Chandler. I know it must not of been an easy decision to decide to tell us this and to admit that you have a problem, so good on you for being honest. Good luck with threapy, I hope it hope helps it you.


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Re: compulsive lying - May 1st 2010, 11:33 AM

Really good that you are acknowledging you have a problem, I hope everything works out for you in therapy
   
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Re: compulsive lying - May 2nd 2010, 02:29 AM

Ok I am going to tell you my whole story so maybe it will clear things up.
My stepdad has raped me consecutive times and i am trying to get past that. I also recently came out to my family about me being bi and they had some issues with it but i hope they are all being resolved. I have also had some issues living with my grandma but those are general teenager- guardian issues.


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Re: compulsive lying - May 4th 2010, 06:30 AM

chandler im not going to lie to u it did hurt me when i read this because i beleieved u.
and i cant change that stuff about me. but i dont just leave people so i can forgive u but i think mayb other people u have lied to may need an appology and a bit of time to get there head around it. its alot to take in.

hope u dont think im being nasty.


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Re: compulsive lying - May 4th 2010, 06:58 AM

It's good that you are admitting to everyone that you have a problem Keep doing that, and be honest. I'm glad you're going to therapy! Congrats!


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