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IDK if this is one or not - May 5th 2010, 03:18 AM

So like i have this i'll call it a bubble that i use to protect myself from getting hurt, only people who i put through a series of tests to make sure i won't get hurt are bascically allowed into my bubble, the other people i pretend like im a big mean person to push them away. Does anyone else do this? Is this something thats mental ( i think it is). Any information would help.
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Re: IDK if this is one or not - May 5th 2010, 05:46 AM

I do this a lot. I tend to push people away because I am afraid that they are going to hurt me or leave me. And in my mind I think that it will be easier to deal with if I push them away first and make them leave me. I think that it is a defense mechanism because no one wants to be hurt. If you have had people hurt you in the past then you make have some trust issues which causes you to test people before letting them into your life. I think that everyone does this, but in a less extreme way. I think that you should start trying to break down some of the barriers that you have set up between you and other people- but its not an easy thing to do, but you can do it.
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