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Name: Liberty Walker
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Too Much - July 24th 2010, 05:13 AM

I haven't been on here in a while so sorry if I rant. This is a long story so that was your warning. lol

During my sophomore year of college, I started dating this guy that I thought was amazing. Two weeks later we were at the "I love you" stage and the "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" stage. Shortly after, people were coming to me saying that he was cheating on me. I ignored it for months. November of that year, he asked my mom for my hand in marriage. She basically said "maybe" and he called me on the way back home to rant about how angry he was. That caused problems between him and her. In December, he told me that I had to choose between him and her. I didn't feel that I could so I threatened to kill myself. He called the cops and I was sent for mental evaluation. I was allowed to go home later that night. There were arguments from then on and more suspect of him cheating. That July, I broke up with him when I caught him cheating on me. In August, now my junior year in college, he proposed to me in order to get me back. I found out that he was cheating on me with my best friend in October and broke up with him again. In early November, I started dating another guy (obviously, accidentally, a rebound) and then broke up with him to go back to the ex-fiance. Eventually, his cheating with my best friend got to me and I broke up with him for the last time. That December, there were rumors and lies going around and I felt so alone. I got tired of being put down and just kept to myself. This continued over the next semester. All of the months of lies and slander are really getting me down. I don't know what to do. School starts in a few weeks and I am living on the same floor as the people who are lying and gossiping about me (it's a faith based floor, ironic, huh?). I feel so anxious about them coming back. I feel like I've been through way too much over the past two years (I'm now in my senior year) and I feel if another thing happens this year I'm just going to fall apart mentally. I have taken so much from these people and I don't know how to handle it when they come back. I really don't know what to do. Any advice would be great. Thanks for reading through all of that if you did.
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