Non-PG13: in bed with a stranger

[Random_Hero]

ok ive been posting about how lonley i have been and its realy late at night and i just woke up buck ass naked with a realy nice looking girl who was also naked .....the thing is that i dont know her and she was all layin ontop of me!!!! i think we had sexand i cant remember anything last thing i remember is hanging up the phone on my frend zach ! i im actualy flipping out but im realy kinda proud i didnt think a girl like that would sleep with me.... so im going back to bed with her my question is was i drugged or did i black out....bc i cant remember what zach and i were talking about .....please help im realy kinda worried this could be bad.....ill post when i learn more about whats going on mean time im going back to bed

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There might be a possibility you both were intoxicated enough to just not remember anything (sounds like it). you might want to be worried about legal issues, like consent and age things (depending on her age and other things). i mean, that's like the worst that could happen but you never know. does the girl remember anything? ask her if possible. oh, and if she was a complete stranger, it may be of good interest to both of you to get tested for STDs, STIs and stuff. because you don't know what happened and stuff.

[savealife723]

i could just be like they said above, you were both intoxicated. i would definitely ask her what happened when she wakes up, if she remembers at all either. since you guys are total strangers though, it might be good to get to know each other at least the minimum amount so that you at least know something about her. i would definitely talk to her about whether either of you have AIDS, or any STDS. that's going to be important.

this whole situation is a little bit weird, but that's pretty much the best you can so since obviously whatever happened last night, already happened.

[Random_Hero]

ok so we slept in ...i woke up again but i kinda liekd laying with her ...so when she woke up she didnt act funny or confused ...so i asked her if shewas ok ....she said she was fined and kissed me ....i wasnt sure how to tell her i didnt remember... so i asked her if she and i had sex and she said duh and asked if i remembered and i told her that i had no idea what had happened and that i was honestly worried id been drugedor blacked out since i dont drink...she said i had met her before once at school and that earlyer she had come to my house to greet her new neighbors ... and since we are both in the same college classes she decided to stay for a bit and she wouldnt tell me how we ended up in bed together other than i was realy forward ....i asked her if id raped her bc i dont know what "forward" ment...she said i definatly did not rape her...she sounded concerned i didnt remember ...and she said she was on the swim team so she knew she was clean and she knew i was clean bc id told her about my regular doctors visits and lack of sex.. but im still worried why i cant remember...

[Pelios]

^^ That usually happens when you 1- Drink a lot more than you can handle. 2- Someone puts something in your drink next time make sure you keep and eye in your drink.

[no.ordinary.dreamer]

Its a little sketchy that she wouldnt tell you how exactly you ended up in bed together. So my best bet is either you drank way too much or someone (possibly her but it could of been anyone) slipped something in your drink.
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[OMFG!You'reActuallySmart!]

Because you cant verify any details, you're going to have to assume she's correct, which would be a very good assumption. So, take it as being close to the truth even though it's not quite the truth (lie of how you two ended up naked). Girls don't regularly walk up and say "hi, I'm your new neighbour" then leave happy with you groggy being told you two just had sex. I'm going with you being drugged because she didn't really know much about you but she was the one who engaged and directed everything. You two may have had alcohol as well, I'm fairly doubtful on that but check your liquor cabinet/bottles.