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i like pain - April 28th 2011, 01:21 PM

i like people who hit me.. my favorite friends are those who would hit me, pinch me, slap me senseless...
i don't like hugs, i don't like nice words..
i just like people who would cause me physical pain.
is it weird?



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Re: i like pain - April 28th 2011, 03:33 PM

Weird? I'm not sure - I don't really have a definition of weird. I think we're all weird in our own ways.

Unhealthy? Yes. I'm not sure where you may have gotten this attachment to those who cause you pain from--do you? Is there something in your past that you feel like has had an influence on this? Essentially, I guess the bottom line is - are you HAPPY right now? If not, I imagine its because you're surrounding yourself with these poisonous people and acidic environments.. and for your own good, it really does have to stop ... soon.

I encourage you to delve a bit deeper and look at the issues here. In the mean time, take care of yourself.



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Re: i like pain - April 28th 2011, 11:49 PM

It's masochistic but the question is whether it's sexual masochism or not. It may reflect a view you have of yourself, in that you don't want to be treated nicely because you may consider yourself to be trash. It's also unhealthy because such friends are willing to do those acts, one has to wonder why they do it. A likely possibility is it leads to more physical abuse and subsequently worsen your feelings you have about yourself.


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Re: i like pain - April 29th 2011, 12:19 AM

been sexually abused as a kid for 3 yrs.. but after so long, it's like, i don't consciously feel like trash? in fact, consciously, i actually feel like a person more and more, and feel that there's hope for me. perhaps my history of self harm makes me feel that physical pain is good, coz otherwise i don't feel..
i don't think it's related to sexual gratification, coz it's just purely just physical pain that i like...

Katrina: yea i agree that there's no clear definition of weird haha, we're all weird :P



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