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So I Binged - September 3rd 2010, 04:35 AM

I guess this could go under Relationships too, so move it if you must.

I just binged like whoa - and i think the reason was because my boyfriend who is abroad in Australia didn't come on skype like we planned ... again. This feels like the fourth time already.

Doing so well on my new routine, I realized that my body was deprived and took it out on sweets and fatty foods that I was avoiding, binging more tonight because I was upset.

I'm trying not to beat myself up about binging, saying that I'm beautiful no matter what and trying to forgive myself when it came to the binge, and at the same time I feel as though I shouldn't eat anything tomorrow because of tonight.

I guess my mind is conflicted because I'm still upset about my boyfriend.

I don't know if I'm looking for advice or not... I guess more than anything I'm looking for support. I am looking for something: hope, faith, the feeling that everything will be alright. If you could help me find that once again ... thanks.


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You can go to heaven and come back alive. You can go back anytime you want with the one you love.

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Re: So I Binged - September 4th 2010, 04:34 AM

It's okay to binge. It's even normal to do so if you are starving yourself.And you do not need to not eat tomorrow. You need to eat. One binge won't ruin you, a binge you can recover from, and it's not the end. Take care of your body, for it is yours and something you will have for a long time. If you eat regularly, and allow yourself to have sweets and junk food and fatty food in moderation, then it's much less likely that you will not binge.

Maybe you need to talk to your boyfriend about what's going on between the two of you. Let him know that it upsets you when he doesn't talk to you when he says he will. He might have something come up suddenly, but just be honest with him about your feelings and respect his.

Just stay strong, you can get through this. And don't hesitate to PM me if you ever want to talk.


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Re: So I Binged - September 5th 2010, 03:33 AM

You commited carbicide.

Only thing that can help is support (which is us) and time!

like said earlier, stay strong.
   
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