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Angry bf said im fat... - September 13th 2010, 06:15 PM

my bf said i have lovehandles...aka fat.....aka need 2 lose weight....im teckinaly "'underweight'. i know i am. but i cant help but feel so fat...i was doing so well untill last night....now im just not hungry...for anything at all...feel horrible...


   
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Re: bf said im fat... - September 13th 2010, 07:08 PM

No don't u dare let bf tell you that stand up for yourself
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Re: bf said im fat... - September 13th 2010, 07:35 PM

What did he say exactly? It could be you're mistaking what he actually meant.
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Re: bf said im fat... - September 13th 2010, 07:38 PM

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What did he say exactly? It could be you're mistaking what he actually meant.
something to the effect of: baby your so pretty, but whats with these love handles?


   
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Re: bf said im fat... - September 13th 2010, 07:38 PM

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Re: bf said im fat... - September 13th 2010, 07:55 PM

Just tell him you're fine with the way you are. He's not asking you to suffer or feel uncomfortable with yourself, he's just complaining about nothing.
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Re: bf said im fat... - September 13th 2010, 07:58 PM

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Just tell him you're fine with the way you are. He's not asking you to suffer or feel uncomfortable with yourself, he's just complaining about nothing.
I agree totally
keep your head held high let him know that it's not looks that Matter it's what's in the inside that matters an counts
and that if he keeps saying those types of comments tell him that you won't
stand for it you won't sucumb down to his level

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Re: bf said im fat... - September 13th 2010, 08:30 PM

Don't be afraid to tell him if comments like that upset you. Some guys can be rather thoughtless and make hurtful comments without even thinking. It's completely unfair on you, and if you're technically underweight you're absolutely fine. In fact you should probably eat more, not less.

Next time he makes a comment like that tell him off, be proud of who you are and don't let him hurt you like that. It will help your relationship more too if you let him know that you'd prefer he not make comments like that. Most likely he didn't even realize it would upset you, some guys are like that. Hope things work out.


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Re: bf said im fat... - September 13th 2010, 08:41 PM

thanks guys! your prob right. he prob didnt realise how it sounded from my side. or how it would affect me. def gonna clear that up!


   
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Re: bf said im fat... - September 13th 2010, 08:45 PM

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thanks guys! your prob right. he prob didnt realise how it sounded from my side. or how it would affect me. def gonna clear that up!
Ur welcome
just remember stand up for yourself also be proud of you!!!no matter what other people say neg or good
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