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[male here] why do I get so weak after ejaculation? - November 9th 2012, 11:22 PM

I'm male. 20 years old. 6 feet tall. About [edited] pounds [edited]. No diseases or health issues. Eating is fine. Sleeping is fine. No mental worries. Everything is fine. I'm not into sports or any physical activities.

I get VERY VERY weak after ejaculation every time. The only thing I prefer after that is lying in the bed and eat and drink juices and milkshakes to regain energy. I get so weak that my muscles hurt without any reason. Neck, legs, back hurts etc. I don't really have a good stamina and whatever I have, it falls below zero after it and energy/strength level falls to zero. If I ejaculate at night, I don't (I can't) go to college the next day because in college you have to exert (going from one class to another and so on) and I can't really do all that. It doesn't matter if I masterbate or my girl gives me a hand job - I feel this way whenever I ejaculate. It takes about 2-3 days to regain some energy and I get back to normal in about 4-5 days. It's been like this since I discovered ejaculation.

Most of my male friends and a lot of people I know masterbate and ejaculate quite often (some even twice a day at times) but I can't afford that. I masterbate and ejaculate every 5-7 days. If I do it everyday, I won't be able to get off the bed.

My diet includes an egg in the breakfast, meat (chicken, beef, mutton), rice in lunch and dinner. I don't eat vegetables (or fruits) at all except french fries. I eat junk food a lot (pizza, burger etc).

I ask my friends about the weakness after ejaculation and they all pretty much say that it's nothing one glass of milk can't fix. But in my case, it takes me days to recover and regain the energy and strength. After ejaculation, I eat extra and try to eat some fruits and anything that I know will give me energy.

Let's just say I can't get professional help or go to a doctor at this time. All the help I can get, if any, is from you guys.

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Re: [male here] why do I get so weak after ejaculation? - November 10th 2012, 04:33 AM

You are brutally honest. I like that. I am not a medical professional; therefore, please do not hold my following opinion to be necessarily true in your case. But we both know that what you are experiencing is and has to be a serious problem.

You might have a heart problem. Maybe your blood pressure goes down significantly after such an activity. I do not know when you went in for a check-up, but if you have not gone in for one in a few years, now is the time to do so. You mention that you eat a lot of junk food, do not consume fruits and vegetables, and do not exercise. Basically, sexual activity is the only physical exercise in your lifestyle. That needs to change immediately.

You rapidly lose energy after ejaculation, and possibly having heart issues seems to be only one logical explanation for that. Yes, it is quite natural to be completely exhausted after masturbation or sex, but nowhere to the point where you cannot recover for an extensive period of time. You might argue that it could be due to an extremely low level of testosterone and what have you, but surely that cannot be true all the time.

My advice: Get yourself checked. I am going to assume you do not have health insurance (since you mention the impossibility of seeking professional help), but you need to get over that obstacle somehow.

Good luck to you!
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Re: [male here] why do I get so weak after ejaculation? - November 10th 2012, 11:01 AM

Hey there, it is against code of conduct to report your weight so seeing as I can't edit it for you, could you take it off. Sizing can trigger people with Ed's as such.

Okay, seeing as I'm female I doubt I can give you a personal story, that would be terrifying
But, I can possibly give you a suggestion, I don't care why you can't go see a professional but you have to get your lazy ass to one asap because this does sound serious.
It may not be your heart, seeing as you don't experience any pain, but after you next ejaculate maybe check your pulse and count any many beats per minute you get (easy way to do this is count how many times in ten seconds your heart beats and then multiply it by six if you don't know). It also may be a blood sugar level depletion. You may need insulin to counteract the effects. When you give yourself pleasure your blood pressure raises, when it comes down, something is trying to stabilise but can't. So, please do get to a doctor asap or just hold off wanking for a while buddy, the effects can be disastrous.

You say you can't get to a doctor, go to the ER instead then?

Hopefully you'll get a better diagnosis soon.


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