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Question A guy keeps asking me to get high and get drunk with him... why? - March 30th 2014, 09:58 PM

I have a guy friend who is a year older than me and he is constantly texting me when he is drunk and is always asking me to hang out saying he has alcohol and has weed to smoke. Why does he always ask me to get drunk and high with him? Is he trying to take advantage of me?
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Re: A guy keeps asking me to get high and get drunk with him... why? - March 30th 2014, 10:25 PM

Its certainly a possibility, especially if its just meant to be the two of you. Maybe he just wants to hang out with you, and thinks offer alcohol and pot is something you'd like, but I'd be careful.
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Re: A guy keeps asking me to get high and get drunk with him... why? - March 30th 2014, 11:35 PM

It's hard to say for sure what his reasoning is unless he tells you himself. I think the important thing is that you only do what you're comfortable with. If you're not interested in the offer then let him know that, and if you are just be careful when you hang out. Or you could simply ask him what his intentions are. But I don't think there's much use in trying to figure it out yourself because you'll never know for sure unless you hear it from him.

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Re: A guy keeps asking me to get high and get drunk with him... why? - March 31st 2014, 12:15 AM

I don't know if you can jump to the conclusion that he is trying to take advantage of you just from that. It sounds more like he is someone who smokes and drinks a lot, and that's all that he really knows how to do when he is hanging out with people.
If you don't feel comfortable smoking and drinking with him, either be blunt and tell him no or try and suggest something else you can do when you hang out.
If you do want to hang out with him, it May be best to not get high or drunk first until you know him a little better, just to be safe.
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