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Unhappy Mum - April 4th 2009, 06:15 PM

I love mum she's a really nice person, I tell her everything going on in my life which compared to some girls in my school/classes, they seem to pretend to have no relation to their mums. I tell mine everything, who I have a crush on my bulima period which I've finnished (thank goodness) but anyways.

She's my bestfriend at times but then sometimes she's my worst enemy and fine people can say that is mother and daughter. But somethings I never understood I asked her to go out on Sunday because I've been in Friday afternoon, Saturday so I thought Sunday a few hours go in to town with my friends the shops are barely open anyways.

So I ask her and she said no like always when I want to go out on a Sunday. So I asked her why and all she said was because its a sunday...?

I love her and I keep telling myself even when she's yelling at me, I keep saying to myself "She Loves Me" but I don't know how long I can keep doing that...

She can be the most manipulative person as well as the master of the double standards and I think she plays me off against my older brother sometimes. I don't understand why? My brother can go and get drunk and come home and hour late but if I can come home 10 minutes late and I even call her to explain why because the buses we're slow traffic was bad I get band from go to that town and have to stay nearer to home.

I hate having to lie to her I'm not aloud over this bridge bit because its dangerous appaerntly which it isn't, but all my friends live on one side of town and I live on the other side so its kinda' need for me to cross over and meet them but she says no. So when I tell her I go out and say I'll meet them in town she believes me and lets me go if I tell her I go over the bridge she tells me off...

Its soo annyoing and she's soo indimadating at times its like I do one thing wrong I'm backed into a corner for weeks!

Someone help me cope with all off this
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Re: Mum - April 4th 2009, 06:26 PM

Its because she loves you. Your still young & the world is a dangerous place, she only wants to keep you safe & make sure that you will grow up ok.

She might have a strict side now, but as you get older, you will gain more trust with each other & things, like crossing the bridge, will get better.


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Re: Mum - April 5th 2009, 06:22 PM

I think that because you're so close, she still sees you as her little girl and is finding it hard to let go of that. Mums sometimes find it harder to let girls do things than boys, which is probably why your brother is allowed to do all these things and you're not. But he's older than you as well so that probably plays a part, I know my sister gets jealous when I'm allowed to do things and she's not.

Try talking to her about how you're feeling, ask if you're allowed a bit more freedom. Compromise with her, say something like "can I go to ...... if i'm back at a certain time" or assure her that you'll let her know where you're going so that she knows you're going to be safe.

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Re: Mum - April 5th 2009, 08:42 PM

its because she loves you and doesnt want you to get hurt most likely i would just try and ask why she wont let you go out until she gives you an answer that always works for me hope it works for you
   
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