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Unhappy It's happened...:( - August 31st 2012, 10:21 PM

Hey Everyone,
I'm really sorry if I sound kinda rude and demanding in this post, but I just can't stop crying about it. Anyways I feel like my best friend of 2 years is ditching me, and has completely erased me out of her life. I feel like she's always following her crush around completely ignoring me.If she isn't following her crush around, then she just talks to other people. I just can't think of a reason why she is treating me like this. I know lots of people, including my parents told me its not worth being friends with her, but I just don't know what to do. I only have a few friends at my school, and I know I could make new friends. Today, since we were having a good conversation, and I had to leave in the middle of it, I said we can continue this conversation through text, and then she just yelled at me.. Saying she wont text me. I'm kinda upset because if she doesn't want to text me, she could've said it nicely.. And yeah. I feel like I sound demanding, really sorry, just upset, and need some support
   
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Re: It's happened...:( - September 1st 2012, 04:05 AM

You're definitely not being demanding, so you don't have to apologize. You have every right to talk about stuff like this on here, and to feel this way. I think the best thing to do right now is to get some space from her. There might be reasons why she's acting like this (maybe she's having some issues and taking it out on you), or there might not be. Either way, her behavior's not really justifiable. But, if you get yourself distanced from her a little, maybe she'll begin to realize why you two are friends in the first place and why she enjoys talking to you. Or, maybe you'll realize that you want to keep your distance from her. If your parents and others have told you that you shouldn't be friends with her, maybe you should consider what they're saying. They might not be right, but they may have some insight because they see your friendship with her from a different perspective.

In any case, I know how it feels to be ditched by friends, and I'm super sorry. My best advice would be to find an activity that you like that will get you around other people, and maybe you'll find some people that you'll be really good friends with. I wish you the best.


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Re: It's happened...:( - September 1st 2012, 08:20 AM

You don't sound demanding at all.. I have had the same problem. I got up and found someone else to be my friend... Start talking to other people and find new friends, You will find a better friend than she was. I just think it is time now to accept that your friendship is over and you need to move on. ( I hope I don't sound rude. I am sorry if i do)




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