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Question Question? - September 1st 2012, 05:13 PM

So I have this friend and sometimes she makes me feel happy and lately, most of the time, she's making me fall apart and cry so much.. I feel like she's enjoying hurting me but I think I might've done something wrong or something's going on with her. Anyways.. I don't know if I should continue to be friends with her or not? Is it worth keeping a relationship of being friends if someone is hurting you a lot?
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Re: Question? - September 1st 2012, 06:11 PM

Hey Rishy
I'm sorry your friend is treating you like this. Hm...you could try telling her how you feel and just see how it goes? Like, if you can tell she doesn't care, then I wouldn't continue being friends with her. You don't deserve to be miserable. So, just ask and whatever.
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Re: Question? - September 1st 2012, 07:47 PM

I think it sounds like there's a good chance she has some issues going on in her own life that she doesn't know how to cope with yet. Sometimes, when people get depressed and go through emotional issues, they unintentionally become selfish and are jerks to others. If she's not even making an effort to keep your feelings intact, or doing nothing to prevent hurting you, I would just give her the space she's clearly asking for. Nine times out of ten, she'll be back with an apology at some point. You can only do so much for people, it's important to remember your own feelings are your first priority.
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Re: Question? - September 2nd 2012, 05:38 AM

I moved this over to Friends&Family because your question is regarding a friendship.
Honestly if she's making you feel bad and you're more unhappy in this friendship than happy, then it might be time to move on. I first have a talk with her and be honest and say that she's been upsetting you. If that doesn't work, then you should just take a step back and leave the friendship for a little while. If she does care about you want wants to be friends, she will come to you and say something. If not, then its probably for the best that you two went your separate ways.

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