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My mother has no respect for anyone in the family, and apparently especially not me. Last Thursday was just a normal day for me but then she announced my uncle was coming over, she let my abuser in the flat. What is even worse is she went behind my dad's back aftef he had specifically told my mom that my uncle wasn't allowed in the flat. My dad had gone out to work on his car. I knew she was acting suspicious when she came back in from the shops, my dad was at the toilet and she slyly said "I thought your dad was going out" and when he did she quickly went on the phone and said theg could come over and she told me who it was them coming over. I literally begged her not to let him in but she never listened. i had been abused by my uncle for years but it seems she just doesn't care or she doesn't believe me.
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Re: How could she? - September 9th 2012, 04:04 PM

I'm sorry that this has happend to you, I hope your alright.

Have you told your dad what she did?


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Re: How could she? - September 9th 2012, 04:08 PM

I am so sorry that your mom did that. I really don't have a whole lot to say other than trying to talk to your mom again and tell her that your uncle is or was abusing you and that you don't want him in your house when you are there. Maybe if you sit down and have a long talk with her she might rethink bringing him over. I'm really sorry this happened to you and I'm sorry I can't be more help.


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Re: How could she? - September 9th 2012, 04:56 PM

I spoke to my dad about what she did and he isn't happy at all, he says now he knows why I don't want to live there. I spoke to my mom and she said that she doesn't think that I am telling the truth about, she thinks I am a liar and attention seeker, that is why I can't talk to her about anything. As soon as my uncle goy in the flat on Thursday he was pushing me around and hurting. I feel like I am an outsider on my mom's side of the family.
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