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Don't really like anyone - October 25th 2012, 09:02 PM

I have a few friends, maybe about 6 or 7 you could call close. But I don't really like any of them, I can honestly say I genuinely really like 2 of them, and those 2 don't really seem to like me, the others I have quite strong feelings of hate for. Most of my friends don't act like friends do, they are often 'two-faced' and sometimes I feel like I don't know them, even though I've 'known' them for years. They annoy me, sometimes purposely and they know it, wind me up. A couple in particular have gone out of their way to make me feel bad/guilty on purpose, or put me down; treating me like crap because they think they're superior. Really big headed type of people. My other friends often don't see this, and they all like each other a lot. I don't have very nice feelings towards my parents either, or my siblings, sometimes I feel no connection to anyone, not love or hate.

I don't really know why I feel like this, and it probably seems a bit child-ish, but I've felt this for so long now, I hate how lonely I feel, when I don't have anyone I can love.

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Re: Don't really like anyone - October 26th 2012, 02:10 AM

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Re: Don't really like anyone - October 26th 2012, 06:51 AM

What you're saying doesn't seem childish to me. You have two friends that you genuinely like, but the rest haven't treated you well. It makes sense that you wouldn't like them! As for your parents and siblings, I can't really comment on that, because I don't know what happened between you and your family members to cause those rifts.

You said you don't have anyone you can love... but what about those two friends? Let's say, for argument's sake, that you DON'T love them, and you just like them a lot. What would you look for in a person that would make them lovable? What traits would they need to possess, how would they need to act, and how would you want them to express their love in return? Sometimes, we can't really identify what it means to "love" someone (and vice versa), so spending some time thinking about that might help. Then, you can look at the people in your life, and perhaps you will be able to pick out one or two things in a few people. It may not be everything you want, but if you can see these people doing a LITTLE bit to make them lovable, then you may feel a bit better about your situation and be more willing to develop closer relationships with those people.






   
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