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Stupid boys. - April 14th 2009, 11:38 PM

I am just so frustrated, mad, bugged and upset right now...
I didn't know whether to put this in the Relationships and Dating section or this one... thought I may as well put it in here since the guy I got a problem with doesn't like me to be more then friends :/

I've liked this boy for a while and I'm completely heels-over-head for him.

He was like that for me too when we first started talking, but I guess he was just high off the fact that he was talking to a new person.

On the 5th of last month, he just kinda stopped talking to me as much.
He wouldn't talk to me on MSN anymore and he'd ignore my texts.
I just told myself he had internet problems or he lost his cell (even though I'd see him using it during the day...).
I asked him at school if he was ignoring me, and he said no.

I texted him today at lunch asking when he wanted to buy tickets for the dance, because we're supposed to go together.
Of course, he didn't reply.
I also texted him once school was done just saying hey.
No reply.

About an hour ago, I asked my sister to text him and see if he'd reply.
And of couse, he did.
I'm just so confused and mad now because I don't know why he's... ignoring me, I guess...

I just don't know what to do about it... I want to do something.
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Re: Stupid boys. - April 15th 2009, 06:24 PM

Wow, what an ass.

I hate players like that. If you want to get him back, don't text him. He probably thinks he has you wrapped around his finger, maybe he does, but he doesn't have to know that. Stop texting him so much and when he notices that you've stopped he'll be like, woh. Basically like hard to get. Make him jelous. ;] Try not to put all your thoughts and stuff all on him. Talk to other guys not just him.

If he's not willing to be part of a relationship or even a friendship with you he's not worth it. If he lost interest he should have owned up to it and told you instead of being immature and ignoring you. I mean, why would he make you fall for him and just stop talking to you?

You could also be straightfoward with him and just be like
--If you lost interest in me you should have told me. You're being immature and its annoying. If you didn't want a relationship you could have told me. You don't even want a friendship I guess. I really fell for you but you just stopped everything so thanks. --

Thats something I would say because I'm harsh. But if your more sad than mad you probably won't do that.

If he doesn't return any of your text he's not worth your emotions and feeling sad over. I know it'll be hard but just move on to someone else.

There's nicer guys.
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