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Unhappy dont no what to do - April 16th 2009, 03:26 AM

hey im andrea

i dont normally come on these websites but the past week has left me all alone. heres my story.

i use to be best friends with this girl for three years, we had our fights like normail people but we were in seprable and always had the most fun. but bowt a month ago we had a fight and she let me cool things off for the weekend and things would go back to normal on monday. but they didnt she ignored me and wouldnt talk 2 me and left me out of everything. me and her arent friends anymore she still wont talk 2 me and goes behind by back saying things bowt me but i just ignore her now i had new friends.

i had a new best buddy named brandon we talked for ages bowt anything he was always there wen i was upset and new how 2 make me feel betta. the other night tho me and him went for a drive and ended up having sex something i regret more then anything and i got reali upset the next day coz he didnt wana see me or talk 2 me and i txt him before and asked if he wana see me and he said "not realy you confuse the hell out of me" wat is that supose 2 mean? wat should i do? i reali need some advice.
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Re: dont no what to do - April 16th 2009, 11:31 PM

Hi Andrea,

I think you should give your friend some more time and try to talk through it with her a bit later. It sounds like she's still upset and might need more time to cool down. When you do talk to her, let her know that you still want to be friends and that you want to put the argument passed you.

I think you and Brandon need to have a long chat. He may have gotten mixed signals or thought he got mixed signals, so you need to let him know how you feel. If you just want to be friends, then make that clear, and if you want to have a relationship, ask him if that's what he wants. Talking in person is always better too. Texting doesn't really cover all of what both of you are feeling.


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