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She Drives Me INSANE!!!!! - April 17th 2009, 06:34 AM

I''m sure many ppl have this same kind of person in thier life. But seriously sometimes I feel like my friend Chrissi is one of a kind. She basically takes pleasure in other ppls pain, but in a way tht isn't even putting it correctly.
She is just so intensely sarcastic and makes u want to pull he hair out and toss her out the window. She is bipolar. not for real, but I swear it seems like it. For example if we're playing a game and she's waving a penalty flag in front of someone's face well tell her to stop, but if we do it back she gets supper defensive and pissed very easily. SHe is a very negative person and very pessimistic and enjoys victimizing herself and makes u feel bad to make herself feel better. But honestly I don't think there are enuff words to desribe her. ALtought I have confronted her many times abbout her unwelcome behavior and gone to the guidance conselor with her, nothing helps and EVERYONE knows about this problem of hers. she is not fun to be around but she insists on being my friend because I'm the only one who will listen. Sometimes I can't take her and talking to her doens't work. Sorry this was so long, but it was definitely called for.
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Re: She Drives Me INSANE!!!!! - April 17th 2009, 11:45 AM

Hey Flannery,

This is a hard situation. I think you need to just give her an ultimatum, a final warning. If she doesn't make some effort to be better to you, then you don't want to spend so much time with her, or even be friends.

Remember, your happiness is important. I feel bad for Chrissi since she doesn't have many friends, but maybe if she realized it was her behavior that pushed them away, she could try to control herself. The main thing here is to do what makes you feel good. If that means not being around her, then that's just what you have to do.

Good luck! PM me if you ever have any questions.


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Re: She Drives Me INSANE!!!!! - April 17th 2009, 03:33 PM

It's so frustrating because we have tried ultimatums and things similar to them, but it doesn't work every falls through when she makes herself the victim even more so. But I know Chrissi better than anyone else, and there are times when she's really cool, and you want to be around her, but in a second your mood can change and you either want to slap her in the face or just walk out on her, which I have never done either. lol. Thanks for your advice Cody, I will most likely use it very soon...

-Flannery.


I'm kinda new...but I hear I give good advice, plus I'm a great listener so PM with anything!! I'm all ears...or eyes rather =]

She likes him...he likes her...welcome to heartbreak.

If the truth hurts, and love stinks...then true love must realllly suck.


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