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I needs some help - April 19th 2009, 12:02 AM

Okay there is this this boy and he is my best guy freind in like the whole world. He was dating this gril and right when I talked to her over Myspace I found out that he dumped her toady for a girl I hate. She is not right for him at all and his ex is asking me to see if he was cheating on her while they were dating. I dont know what to do. He may not want to be freinds anymore if I acuose him of cheating and tell him that he sholdnt date the girl he is with. What do I do?

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Re: I needs some help - April 19th 2009, 12:58 AM

If he is your best friend, side with him momentarily. Tell his ex girlfriend that you don't want to get involved in this because you feel it's not your place to investigate. You also might want to inform your guy friend about this and tell him how you feel about the girl he is dating. If he truly is a good friend, he'll understand and listen to what you have to say. But be sure to let him know that you'll support him no matter what, that you're just concerned about him

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Re: I needs some help - April 19th 2009, 01:05 AM

Just tell him, that girl sucks why would you date her. Don't make a big deal out of it the more you try to hide what you think the worse it will get.

Regarding cheating, don't accuse if you don't know. If it's none of your business you might want to stay out of it.
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Re: I needs some help - April 19th 2009, 02:45 AM

just a quick question... do you not like her because she's dating him and you're jelous of her because you like him?

If thats not why you don't like her, gently explain to him that you think she might be cheating, etc, but tell him that you support him either way.

also- the font you're using is really hard to read, maybe try something else?

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