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im scared and nervous - April 20th 2009, 02:56 AM

im scared of loosing my friends that im mad close with and its bothering me. its like putting me in a funk.

one of my best friends and i go to the same community college. im stuck here til fall 2010, but my friend might be goin to a 4 year school next semester. i dont want to loose contact with her, but idk how to salvage and keep it going. i know friendships shouldnt be forced, but its important to me.

another good friend of mine is a senior in high school this year. she is goin to a 4 year school this upcoming semester. we work at the same place. and she is quitting before she leaves for school. and she is a very sociable person so i know she is gonna move on real fast.

i feel bad and uncomfortable that i dont want to accept change. and i dont want to feel like im forcing a friendship on these people. the last thing i want to be is clingy and needed.

ugh, i hate life lol.

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Re: im scared and nervous - April 20th 2009, 09:18 PM

Hey Kelly,

It sounds like you've got some good friends, and I'm sure it wont be as difficult to keep up the friendship as it seems right now. Friendship doesn't just revolve around time at school. It certainly helps to be sociable at school, but you all have a life outside of that too

Giving your friends a call or sending an email doesn't seem forced unless you send them mass messages without letting them reply. Don't worry about keeping in contact through phone calls or online messages. They are your friends. I'll bet they're just as worried about losing contact as you are! Just plan some times where you can all hang out after school or on a weekend.

Don't be scared about this. You're close with your friends, and I'm sure school wont stop that.


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