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Angry I can't do anything right. - April 21st 2009, 12:41 AM

It's so frustrating because one minute the whole family can be happy and then within seconds I can ruin everything! I don't try to be a pain, but apparently I am. Somebody blames me for something, then I get snappy and everyone gets mad at me and leaves the room, and I have officially ruined the night.
This especially happens with my mom. Sometimes she annoys me so much that there is not other way out for my anger except to explode. I become super cranky and she gets mad. However, my mom is not your typical mom. She takes things so differntly and approaches things that would make you want to hit her. Such as: if you are upset over something and are trying to talk to her and you catch on with a little attitude and want her to care. She goes abou ther business and pretends like you aren't even upset. She doesn't care. Not. One. Bit. Deep down you may think she does, but trust me she doesn't.
The worst part is, I can hear myself being cranky, I mean, I wouldn't want to hang out with me either. I try to stop myself, but I get so mad and end up on the verge of teary-frustration!!! It happens almost every night, I try to stop it, but it's so much easier to let the anger out and let the tears fall.


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Re: I can't do anything right. - April 21st 2009, 04:15 AM

Don't be so hard on yourself, being a teenager comes with a package of pent up anger and depression. Your behavior isn't abnormal. Although, to make it easier on yourself, I suggest talking to a therapist or an adult you trust. And it's not your fault. There's nothing you can do to 'ruin' somebody's night. If their night is ruined, they didn't handle it well. Again, I say, don't be so hard on yourself What your going through is difficult, but I assure you that you're not alone ;D


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Re: I can't do anything right. - April 22nd 2009, 02:42 AM

Thanks. That was good to hear I have realized that I am soo moody, like I said I can hear myself getting like this and I don't like it, but it's like I can't stop!!! But thanks sooo much for your advice!


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Re: I can't do anything right. - April 22nd 2009, 03:13 AM

Hey flannery,
i promise that she cares about you! shes probably acting like she doesn't care because she is just letting you get out all your anger and frustration.
when i was younger (and yes, still some today, but not near as bad) I would talk about something that was very significant and symbolic to me. my parents didn't realize the main point of what i'd say, so they'd just kind of blow me off. i didn't understand that they didn't get it though, so i'd be really hurt and start yelling and lecturing and crying. which of corse doesn't go over well with them. i've recently figured out that they just didn't understand, so i feel mostly better now...
could you be kind of in the same situation?
sorry if this doesn't make sence, its hard to explain!
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Re: I can't do anything right. - April 22nd 2009, 10:36 PM

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Thanks. That was good to hear I have realized that I am soo moody, like I said I can hear myself getting like this and I don't like it, but it's like I can't stop!!! But thanks sooo much for your advice!
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It's good that you want to feel better too
If you need to chat one on one, go ahead and pm me
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Re: I can't do anything right. - April 23rd 2009, 11:08 PM

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Hey flannery,
i promise that she cares about you! shes probably acting like she doesn't care because she is just letting you get out all your anger and frustration.
when i was younger (and yes, still some today, but not near as bad) I would talk about something that was very significant and symbolic to me. my parents didn't realize the main point of what i'd say, so they'd just kind of blow me off. i didn't understand that they didn't get it though, so i'd be really hurt and start yelling and lecturing and crying. which of corse doesn't go over well with them. i've recently figured out that they just didn't understand, so i feel mostly better now...
could you be kind of in the same situation?
sorry if this doesn't make sence, its hard to explain!
pm ma any time!!!
Yeah, that sounds about right, the thing you said about her wanting to let me let out all my anger and frustration. Omg! I do the exact same thing I get so mad when she does that and I start having a fit! I think she does understand, but just has very unique parenting skill. lol. Thanks everyone for the advice, it truly did help!


I'm kinda new...but I hear I give good advice, plus I'm a great listener so PM with anything!! I'm all ears...or eyes rather =]

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