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help - April 22nd 2009, 02:14 AM

what would you tell your new found father for after 16 years that you have never meet and just comes in and makes promises and then don't keep them. how you really feel about him. and then he don't speak to me tell after my great grandma dies from his side and starts in again. do i give him another chance or really what should i do
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Re: help - April 22nd 2009, 02:18 AM

Well, maybe before you give him an official chance again, you should sit down and talk to him to ensure that this won't happen again, this on and off relationship. Tell him your unhappy with it and your one way or the other, but you can't keep going on and off like this, especially when everything in your life is changing sorapidly right now.


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Re: help - April 22nd 2009, 02:26 AM

thanks alot i get that to but sometimes i need some advice to
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Re: help - April 22nd 2009, 02:38 AM

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Your welcome, I'm happy to help....but I don't get the second part of what you're saying. lol sorry.


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Re: help - April 22nd 2009, 04:25 AM

meaning like love to give advice and i sometime i need it
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Re: help - April 23rd 2009, 12:06 AM

Hi there,

I think that this really depends on what kind of promises your dad made and broke before and his reasons for doing so. If it was because he was busy and had other things to do that were important, then I might understand a little and I'd say go ahead and give him another chance. If he made big promises and just didn't bother to keep up with what he said, then I think you need to strongly consider not including him in your life. It seems like he's not up for the responsibility of taking care and spending time with you.

I agree that a good long chat with him is in order. Try to make it as clear as possible that he needs to keep his word if he wants to hear from you.

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