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I hate my friends - August 7th 2013, 04:23 PM

Well, I don't hate them, it's just sometimes I do because they make me feel bad, unintentionally. Like they're lives are good, they're good, they have people that love them, they're clever, blah blah blah. And I just :/ Nothing in my life seems to be going right and they kind of remind me of that by shoving there amazing lives in my face and it kind of makes me hate them, I know that sounds really bad because its not their fault, trust me i feel plenty guilty about it, but I'm so jealous all the time and it feels like the whole world is against me., sometimes it feels like they don't even care about me. I just feel so lonely and terrible.


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Re: I hate my friends - August 7th 2013, 07:22 PM

Do they know any of what is happening with you? Because if they don’t and just talk about everyday stuff, thats why. BUT, if they do know things have been bothering you and they just simply ignore it or shrug it off, yeah i’d hate my friends too and would be looking for new ones. But if they don’t know, they won’t know until you say something.


   
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Re: I hate my friends - August 8th 2013, 03:51 AM

People don't usually intentionally flaunt their good fortune/success (well some people do, but not every person you're friends with would be like that so yeah). I can understand being jealous of them if they seem to have every last thing going for them, and I am glad to see that you feel guilt for resenting them a little for it (instead of trying to justify why they shouldn't be able to have it all if you can't have it too). I think the important thing to remember is that people who "have it all" have problems too. Like I had this friend acting like since I didn't have to worry about money while in university that everything was just totally ok for me when she totally seemed to dismiss how much i struggled to get my grades up (she seemed to think it was so easy for me since I'm smart enough to do good in school but it wasn't) and she didn't see how totally alone I was and stuff. So I think it's easy to dismiss other peoples problems if their problems seem insignificant compared to yours or if you can always be like "well, at least your not dying of AIDS and malnourishment in Africa". So try to remember that. But also it might help if you try talking to someone instead of bottling it up. That way your not building a monster in your head




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Re: I hate my friends - August 13th 2013, 05:49 AM

you can try to like them~~~
   
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