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Unhappy My best friends now bully me - December 8th 2013, 11:49 PM

I guess the best place to start is at the very beginning...just incase I am going to change the names of the people.
I had three best friends we went to the same school and we were in the same year.Me and Jodie were in all the same classes while Sarah and Jessie were in all classes together too.
Although we all hung out together it wasn't exactly a healthy friendship.You see Sarah was like the ring leader of it all,she would tell me stuff that Jessie had said about me which would anger me so much that it reached the stage were me and Jessie didnt even like one another,so Sarah had the best of both worlds.
Me and Jodie were always closer than we would've been with the other two but one day Sarah told me how annoyed she was that I was leaving her out etc.i had known Sarah the longest so I stopped spending as much time with Jodie.But to my shock Sarah stopped hanging out with me as often but with Jodie!
Things changed and Jodie began to hate me and ran off and found new friends.

It was now just me Sarah and Jessie,tensions were always high with me and Jessie because both of our minds were being warped by Sarah.
one day completely out of the blue Sarah stopped speaking to me and made up this fake story of us having a fight that never happened
I went to a concert in town and Sarah and Jessie left me by myself there.
The next day I had plans to go out for lunch (were allowed out for lunch at school)with my mom but Jessie got annoyed because I couldn't take her too.so she stopped talking to me too.
They were my only friends in school and I had nobody else I stayed off for 2weeks I was too anxious to go back and when I finally did I took a different approach I became really friendly with a group of girls in my year and a couple of girls who lived near me.
But what happened next hurt so bad...Jessie Sarah and Jodie told everybody I had become friends with lies about me telling them that I had being saying horrible things about every one of them,which I hadn't.
They have completely isolated me in school,I sit alone in every class,on school trips I'm alone on the bus and on the actual trip,I hide in the toilets on break because nobody will talk to me.
I had shared a locker with Sarah and Jodie but recently i noticed my books were missing,I couldn't find them anywhere I searched through the school and found my books hidden in a locker.they make sly remarks at me and are constantly giving me intimidating looks.
I am alone with no friends,nobody to talk to,I take anxiety attacks at the thoughts of school..I cry...alot.
   
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Re: My best friends now bully me - December 9th 2013, 02:45 AM

Hey, I'm sorry to hear what has happened. To be honest, those people dont sound like real friends. If i were in that situation i would just stay away from them and possibly try to meet new people and make healthy friendships. i know how hard it can be to be alone and cry for not having friends and not having anyone to talk to. but i do know that you can get through this. if you ever need someone to talk to, I will be here for you. feel free to PM me anytime. I will be your friend.


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Re: My best friends now bully me - December 9th 2013, 12:24 PM

Hey there~ I have to agree with Kimberly. Those girls don't sound like real friends at all. I think that they are those kind of girls that just want a large group of friends to be around them all the time so that they can look popular.

I think you should just ditch them. After reading what you've said, I feel that you can easily make new friends. You have a great personality. You don't need those girls at all. Meet other people and who knows, you might find your new BFF soon.

If you ever need anyone to talk to, you can talk to me. I will be your friend too, if you like.


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Just stay the hell out of my way when I'm moving forward.
And I'm not dragging your sorry butt with me.
   
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Re: My best friends now bully me - December 9th 2013, 12:52 PM

Thank you guys so much!
   
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Re: My best friends now bully me - December 10th 2013, 11:40 AM

I agree with what the others have said, don't let those girls make you feel sad and anxious. They must have some problems if they feel like they have to make other people feel bad about themselves! I know it must feel horrible being so isolated and lonely but don't let them win, show them that they don't phase you by trying your hardest to start new friendships. You could even try approaching one of the friends you had made previously and explain to them what's happened, if they don't understand or listen to you then they're not worth being friends with anyway! I hope you are able to make some new friends and feel free to PM me anytime


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Re: My best friends now bully me - December 19th 2013, 01:55 AM

You know what? Forget those girls! They're just bullies who don't care about you.

Avoid them as much as possible, and tell the school counselor about what's happening.

Try and research about how to make some more friends.

Also, practice talking to people, by using something like a teddy bear, or a mirror as a practice dummy.

And... You know what else? I'll be your friend!

Good luck in school, new friend!
   
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