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Been asked to hang out for the first time in ever? - January 1st 2014, 02:57 PM

I was playing play station with my 2 friends who i havent seen in forever but we always play and talk on the phone etc

Anyway i was talking to them on my head peace and jack said justin wanna hang out i got paint ball tickets or something like that
He asked me and adam and some of his other friends who i know from high school

I feel bad tho like i feel like he was only inviteing me because he was invitein adam but surely he could of asked while i wasnt in the same call so i didnt know?

If he didnt want to invite me

But he invited me he dose want me to come right? If not he wouldnt of invited me would he?
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Re: Been asked to hang out for the first time in ever? - January 1st 2014, 09:00 PM

I don't think it's particularly helpful to over-analyze situations like this one. He almost certainly invited you because he wants to hang out with you in person. Entertaining all the other (more unlikely) possibilities may just lead to suspicion/paranoia, which can screw up the friendship you have with him.

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Re: Been asked to hang out for the first time in ever? - January 1st 2014, 10:52 PM

^^She's got it in a nutshell. Don't think too much into it, he obviously just wants to hang out. Enjoy

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Re: Been asked to hang out for the first time in ever? - January 1st 2014, 11:02 PM

I agree, don't think too much into it. If he didn't want you to come along, he wouldn't have invited you so you should go along and enjoy yourself and try not to worry about it.
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Re: Been asked to hang out for the first time in ever? - January 4th 2014, 08:03 PM

In this situations you don't have to think too much about it.
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Re: Been asked to hang out for the first time in ever? - January 4th 2014, 08:35 PM

I agree with the others. Don't over think it! It sounds to me like he wanted to hang out with you. Go and enjoy yourself!

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