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Thumbs down I lost everyone - March 20th 2014, 01:34 PM

i have no friends. I lost all of them when I turned dark. I have no real friends. No real family too. My adoptive family hates my guts.
   
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Re: I lost everyone - March 21st 2014, 06:13 AM

Hey, there.

I'm really sorry to hear about your recent situations. Losing Friends (i.e., due to a various amount of reasons) is a difficult thing to deal with, and is most cases leaves us blaming ourselves, destroying our self-confidence, or causing a domino-type effect on other relationships/friendships we have. I wish I could fix all your problems at home (i.e., with your family), or with your friends, but I can't. Only you have the ability to influence your relationships.

With that being said, don't keep pushing yourself down. Don't keep blaming yourself. Set goals and work toward them. So in this situation, start getting involved at school (or out of school). Join groups, clubs, sports, teams, volunteer, etc. Doing so will open up the door to new friendships. In regards to your family life, try to communicate with them. Tell them that you feel as if things aren't going smoothly, or that you'd like to improve the relationship you have with them. Unfortunately if you don't set goals and work towards them, nothing good/positive will most likely happen.

Keep your head up, push yourself, set goals, and work towards them. In the end, you'll be happy you did.


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Re: I lost everyone - March 25th 2014, 08:36 AM

When I moved to a different state I ended up losing some friendships that I thought would last. After a major life event, you really see who your true friends are. Sometimes it better to just start over and look for new friends after learning from the relationships of your past.

If you get involved in your school or community, that could help you find people who have similar interests to you.

Whenever you feel like talking just send me a message
   
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Re: I lost everyone - March 25th 2014, 04:55 PM

I am like that also i am adopted
   
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Re: I lost everyone - March 25th 2014, 05:13 PM

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Yeah it sucks
   
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Re: I lost everyone - March 27th 2014, 02:48 PM

Then they obviously werent your real friends. Friends are supposed to be there no matter what happens. And family is what you make it. You dont have to be related by blood, or papers saying theyre your family. Its anyone that truly cares about you. Try to stay strong and find some new friends. If you ever need to talk, im here also.
   
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Re: I lost everyone - March 31st 2014, 02:07 PM

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yes it does. I'm hoping it gets better for you
   
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