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I am about to bitch slap my friend - July 31st 2014, 02:30 PM

Ok, so I moved far away from my home town a number of years ago for university.

One of my best friends decided to finally visit me this summer because I couldn't come vacay with the parents at all.

I knew dealing with her 24/7 for a week would be draining. She is extremely emotional, over sensitive and tends to be a little dramatic (I've been going with "drama queen" and "dramatic baby"). But I didn't think I'd be sick of her after 3-4 days (she's here for 8!!) so I am starting to get worried about how I am going to hold out until Saturday... Like she's all sad cause she has to leave yet I am like "thank fucking God she's leaving in 2 days" (which obviously I cannot tell her cause that would hurt her feelings)

Like I love her but she takes every slight (no matter how small) like a punch in the stomach and she's always agonizing over what other people think and it's just so annoying to always have to be like trying to tell her to calm to fuck down and not get angry cause it's so tiring having to hold her hand all the time!!

She's extremely anxious and usually it's ok because I am not stuck in close quarters for a long time, we might see each other for like a few hours once or twice when I visit my parents on the holidays, and then she can take her drama home...

But it's even like this morning I asked what she was doing cause she was taking a REALLY REALLY long time to get ready and I hadn't seen her come back to the room for about half an hour... And I was saying something about how I wasn't sure if I wanted to go out (like around town) when she was ready or if I would rather wait a while longer to have lunch first... And she started getting bitchy cause supposedly I was rushing her and "oh, well, I'm out of my element staying here" blah blah blah... And I was like wtf, I'm on my lap top right now in no rush to go any where so I was like telling her that it was fine and just take her time but she kept bitching about how she felt rushed and I was like ok i'm literally not rushing anyone to go anywhere but when I tried telling her that she was getting mad at me just cause I was curious about what was taking so long she like rolled her eyes and walked away and was like mad cause "well, I'm not used to having my every move questioned" which I am totally not doing, I only asked her that one time what she was doing and I might have asked her once or twice who she was chatting with when she was typing away on her cell for a long time, but that hardly seems like I am questioning her every move to move, and literally I was wondering what would take so long and and I just sort of waved my hand and was like "just take your time", but oh yeah, waving my hand and saying that was "bitchy"? Like ok then?

Like I said, I love her, but I am sick of her majorly over reacting to EVERYTHING and I want her to go home when she acts like that but our hometown is so far away she has to fly and her flight is not leaving until Saturday, but I am losing my mind over her mood swings and her behaving like a total baby over everything, I can't fucking stand it and I am afraid I am about to say something really mean and harsh soon and it might be something that she doesn't deserve that might ruin our friendship cause I am sick of her being such a dramatic baby every fucking day when we could be enjoying our entire time together instead of just parts of it...

I mostly needed to vent but I guess I am also hoping someone else will have a solution for me so that I wont freak out at her!




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Re: I am about to bitch slap my friend - July 31st 2014, 04:43 PM

Also I think if she visits in the future I will remember this and keep visits to 3-4 days. But the effort to not bitch slap her several times a day is getting to be a bit much




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Re: I am about to bitch slap my friend - August 1st 2014, 11:14 AM

When you feel like freaking out on her you could leave the house and go for a walk or log on to your computer and go to the screaming thread and vent or make another thread.

Honestly, the one that works best for me is just walking away. People get mad sometimes and think it is bitchy but its better that I walk away then yell at you.

It is important to remember that Saturday will be here in no time. You pretty much only have to get through Friday and then Saturday will be here. And, honestly, Friday will probably fly by.

I doubt this was probably all that helpful but I thought I would try and respond. I wish you the best of luck with all of this.


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Re: I am about to bitch slap my friend - August 1st 2014, 03:55 PM

Yeah, I think it goes deeper then that though. It goes right down to a clash in our personality, and it makes it seem like I am being a bad person when I am really not just because I express myself differently than her and she'll read things into my tone that weren't even there... It's very frustrating




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Re: I am about to bitch slap my friend - August 1st 2014, 03:55 PM

I'll definitely try that though




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