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How can I make him feel better? =\ - May 5th 2009, 11:20 PM

Hes a close friend, and he means a hell lot to me.

I can feel my feelings for him growing stronger every day >_<!

I did something terrible. I lied so I can make him happy, and we both end up deeply upset. I told him that its my fault, and I should of said something and spoke up, but hes putting himself down. Hes putting this all on himself. Its killing me.

I don't wanna go into detail what happened..

All I wanna do is make him feel better.. I'm trying to do the best I can, but maybe suggestions might help...

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Re: How can I make him feel better? =\ - May 6th 2009, 12:52 AM

You're probably going to have to give him some space and time to sort things out for himself. Being lied to is painful and often takes some time to come to terms with.

Let him know that you really do value his friendship and don't want to lose it, then let hi know you'll be there when he's ready. The best thing you can do from here on out is maintain honesty, show him that you really are honest, it was just a major mistake.
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