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EVERYONE hates me - December 20th 2015, 01:02 AM

It feels this way all the time, whenever im with my friend Jaid, and we hang with all of her friends EVERY single one of them treats me differently and it isn't fair. I do NOTHING. It hurts my feelings so much, and I refrain from saying anything as they get defensive and think im crazy. I always stay dead silent because im so scared of fucking up, and it's so boring and makes me cry. I feel incredibly lonely, and pathetic...


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Re: EVERYONE hates me - December 20th 2015, 02:11 AM

Hey,

You said you're being treated differently; can you explain a little more if you're comfortable enough to do so? Maybe it's a misunderstanding or maybe they are treating you differently. I know you said you refrain from saying anything because they don't react well, but I think you should tell them how you're feeling if you feel like you're being mistreated. Consider using "I" statements so you don't sound too accusatory. If you're not comfortable verbally expressing it, maybe you can write a note instead. If your friends are aware of this and still don't treat you well, it might be time to look for some new friends.

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Re: EVERYONE hates me - December 20th 2015, 02:13 AM

Cassado, I'll use one night in specific. Me and Jaid were hanging out with this guy, and we broke into this park and climbed on top of this sun roof. The ENTIRE time the guy was hitting on my friend, and being a rude ass hole like helping Jaid get off the sun shade, and making me climb that damn thing by myself. He helped Jaid climb the fence, and made me climb by myself. He ONLY talked to her and wouldn't talk to me hardly, without making harsh remarks.


the girl who always seemed unbreakble finally
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the girl who seemed strong
CRUMBLED
the girl who always laughed
CRIED
the girl who never stopped trying finally
GAVE UP

she let her fake smile fade and as she did a tear rolled down her cheek and she whispered

' i can't do this anymore'
   
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Re: EVERYONE hates me - December 20th 2015, 05:14 AM

Indiaa.

I'm just going to tell you that if people don't appreciate you, then it's their loss. It also sort of sounds like there's lots of mean people where you're from, and that you're the one who's too nice for them.. just forget them. You'll eventually meet better people in your life, and they'll be the ones to give you companionship, friendship and love. Like the new guy for example... if he treats you that way and is mean to you for no reason, maybe he's just insensitive.

You certainly deserve people who're better than this, and there's no point mixing around with people who're mean when you're clearly better, more compassionate and more loving than them. I know that you don't judge people, and that you're sweet.

They judge, and they're not considerate. That's their loss as they'll miss out on mixing with nice people like you.

So give yourself a pat on the back.. you're determined, you're strong.. and I respect you so much. I think that it'll be best for you to mix around with other groups of people.. not the ones who treat you so badly. I'm sure that you're warm... and that you're nice. People at their basic levels of comprehension prefer people who're warm and caring. And that's so India. That's so you!

As you already know, I'll always be around for yous!


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