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Exclamation Bestfriend issues... Help? - June 7th 2016, 06:18 AM

So i have this best friend and she seems to be leaving me out, theres 3 of us, her, myself, and my other friend. And whenever we hang out my other friend gets all the attention and its really fustrating and makes me very sad. And all she does is spend time with her boyfriend and she always say they need alone time but all they ever do is have alone time so me and my best friend never really spend anytime together anymore.... I really need help, ive tried talking to her but i never really get to the point becuase im too shy but, i do hint it. during school she never really comes up and talks to me either anymore....

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Re: Bestfriend issues... Help? - June 7th 2016, 05:37 PM

Hey there, that's a common issue when you're in a friendgroup of three people... there will often be one who feels left out. I would encourage you to ask her to hang out after school or eat lunch together or something. Also, although this may seem daunting, this is a good opportunity to go out and make new friends, or at least aquaintances.
As for her spending most of her time with her boyfriend, there's not much you can do to make her spend more time with you, apart from inviting her out and suggesting you hang out from time to time. If she doesn't want to, the best thing you can do is try to understand that she's really into this person and wants to spend as much time as she can with him. I know that in the context of a relationship I'm like that too, and although it makes me feel like a horrible person when my friends point out I'm spending less time with them and more with him, it doesn't make me spend any less time with him.

I'm afraid that's all the advice I've got! Good luck x

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