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really don't know - May 19th 2009, 07:11 PM

well if this is the wrong spot for this feel free ro move it.

well i have a good friend she is gay and she has a girlfriend she know that am straight and of all things i do have a kid. but she hits on me and sometimes when we are texting or talking she brings up things that kinda make me uneasy and i give her the hint am not looking in to the curious thing with her how can i tell her am not interested but her still be my friend and not get mad? any ?'s feel free to ask if you don't understand thanks
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Re: really don't know - May 20th 2009, 12:56 PM

Jus tell her you want to be her friend, and not her GF. Tell her that when she "hits" on you, it makes you uneasey.


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Re: really don't know - May 20th 2009, 03:02 PM

Hi Jessica,

That sounds like a difficult situation with your friend. I honestly think the best way to resolve this is to just talk about it with her; maybe sit down with just you and her and explain that you feel uncomfortable when she does certain things (and give examples so that she knows exactly what you're talking about). Try to use 'I' statements so that you don't sound like you're blaming her because people often find it easier to listen to and understand the other person's point when they don't feel defensive about their behaviours. She may not realise how she's behaving or how her behaviour affects you, and it may be that simply by letting her know she'll respond to that.

Good luck and take care,

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