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Unhappy my mom... Does she...hate me? - September 27th 2017, 04:09 AM

I just think maybe she does, and I'll tell my story.
I was adopted at the age of 6 by my family because my dad wanted me. But then my mom and dad divorced, and my dad moved away. Far away.
I was only 6.
My mom however loves my sisters, who were 9 and 3 at the time I was adopted.
That I know.
When I was 7, I cuddled onto my mom's lap and told her I loved her. I also asked her if I was a good little girl, because I was always insecure. She stayed silent and sort of pushed me off her lap.
Then enters 4 year old sister. She cuddles onto my mom's lap and my mom hugs her.
When I was 9, I was swimming with my older sister in the water, because we have a beach house. I was a clumsy swimmer and had to grab her hand now and then. My mom pulled me out of her grip, pushed me deep, and like I said, I was a clumsy swimmer. My sister pulled me out, but I was scared to death, and was coughing a lot.
When I was 10 or 11, my little sister once was playing with scissors, and she accidentally cut me. I was all bloody. My mom said,"Melody! How could you be so mean to your little sister?!"
My mom has never told me she loved me.
I feel like the only person who loves me is my big sister. She is 18. She has already bought me a computer, and has let me sleep on her bed forever.
I'm sad.
Please help.
   
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Re: my mom... Does she...hate me? - September 28th 2017, 03:47 PM

I'm sure that she does love you but it is most likely hard for her and she's not sure how to handle her feeling and emotions and don't know how to express them
   
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Re: my mom... Does she...hate me? - October 1st 2017, 01:51 PM

No one can say whether or not your mom hates you because we don't know what is going on in your mother's head. However, from what you have written it seems as though your mom has some issues of your own and is taking them out on you. For instance, perhaps she is angry at your father because of the divorce and takes it out on you because of how much your father wanted to adopt you. Note that, that may or may not be going on but is rather just an example.

Do you know where your father has moved to? Do you have his address? Maybe you could write to him, or call him and see how he's doing. It has been a while since you've seen your father but perhaps he would be supportive of you in a way that your mom isn't.

It's really nice that you have a good relationship with your sister. Definitely utilize the relationship you have with her. Does your sister know how you feel about your mom? Even if you haven't told her she may already have an idea. But, do lean on your sister and spend time with her when you can as she seems to be a positive person for you.


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