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Is this a weird thing to ask a guy? - December 3rd 2017, 05:30 PM

There is this guy that I have a crush on and I started texting him about a month ago. I have been trying to act casual and become friends with him first. We barely talk in person and we text almost daily. So I wanted to ask if this is waa weird thing to text him... "We should talk more in person. You seem pretty cool" my best friend said that it's pretty obvious that I like him but I don't get it. I say that to guys all the time so now I'm kinda confused and here I am. Yup I know this is weird but whatever.
   
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Re: Is this a weird thing to ask a guy? - December 3rd 2017, 07:29 PM

nope, not weird at all! but if I was 14-15 again, I would probably think it was weird and obvious. I don't know how old you are, but I do think that the older you get the more comfortable you are able to become with stuff like that.
if you want you can work your way up slowly. sometimes if you ask to talk in person, it could seem too forced when you actually get to talk in person. like "oh we're doing this because we have to haha". you could start by asking if he just wants to talk on the phone or skype/FaceTime.
it's easier said than done, but don't over think it too much. good luck!


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Re: Is this a weird thing to ask a guy? - December 4th 2017, 06:47 AM

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Re: Is this a weird thing to ask a guy? - December 4th 2017, 07:46 AM

I don't think it's weird at all. If you want to get to know this person "in real life" instead of always talking via text, it makes sense to suggest it to him. Maybe you could mention something specific to him, such as "We should talk more in person, do you want to come see a movie with me and some other friends?". That way it may not be so awkward and you'll have something to talk about, so it could be a good starting point. Good luck, and let us know how it goes.




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Re: Is this a weird thing to ask a guy? - December 4th 2017, 11:51 PM

Thanks I'll keep that in mind
   
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