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I'm reaching my limits with my dad - April 30th 2018, 02:59 AM

I swear to god, I'm literally fixing to shout some unkind words at my dad. On Wednesday morning we left to go to Missouri for my aunt's funeral. We stayed in a hotel with my uncles, aunts, cousins, and a lot of family. It was honestly very fun. My cousin and I played hide n seek, we played board games, and we all ate at Chilis for dinner. But Thursday night I overheard my dad telling his twin brother the reason why he wanted to leave the next day right after the funeral. He wanted to have sex with his girlfriend. He literally was going to leave family we haven't seen in over 6 YEARS to go stay the night at his girlfriend's house. He then tried bribing my brothers and I with gifts and snacks to make me less angry. Heck, he gave me 30 dollars to forgive him! I'm furious with him because he knew how much the family was having fun and how we were all getting to know one another, and he wanted to get it on with a girl that he later on had a fight with. I mean, come on! Can he be any less mature?! I know that my dad is violent and such, and i know me yelling at him could possibly get me hit, but I'm losing my patience. I have taken care of my brothers when he walked out for several hours, I have been a maid and cleaned the entire house when he wanted to goof off and play games, and I learned how to cook dinner with nothing but bread, eggs, and milk. He is so childish! I can't handle him anymore. I'm losing any hope of my relationship with him improving, and this latest incident has proven to me that he cares only about his adult pleasures.

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Re: I'm reaching my limits with my dad - May 4th 2018, 01:29 PM

Hey,

Apologies for the late reply! I was away for a few weeks.

Did venting here about how things were going help you out? I hope it did. It must be difficult to be going through this with your dad right now but know that your feelings are completely valid and it is understandable to feel the way that you do given what you've been going through.


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Re: I'm reaching my limits with my dad - May 4th 2018, 03:22 PM

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Hey,

Apologies for the late reply! I was away for a few weeks.

Did venting here about how things were going help you out? I hope it did. It must be difficult to be going through this with your dad right now but know that your feelings are completely valid and it is understandable to feel the way that you do given what you've been going through.
It's okay! And yes, it did help somewhat.


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