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I am so sick of this. - October 15th 2018, 06:43 PM

[SIZE="a"]SO this is a post about two of my friends.

I am so sick and tired of my friend Karly, making plans with me and I get so happy that I am finally going to spend sometime with her, but then she cancels the day before because something came up. Usually with her family. I mean I kind of getting it but damn. I am the one that always starts the conversations, and ask to hangout she doesn't put the effort it the friendship. I am so tired of this.

Then my other friend Sofia who doesn't live by me is also pissing me off. We have planned on talking on the phone for a couple months. We had everything scheduled but then the hurricane interfered and I get that, and was not pissed off about that. What I am pissed off about is the fact that we scheduled a time a Saturday and then she never called, or told me to call her. Then yesterday I was kind of pissy with her but we worked that out and she said that she really cares about me and values me. But then she also said to tell her sometimes I am available this week and she promised to get back to me later that day. She never did and it's 11:07am for me and 2pm for her and still haven't heard anything. I know she has a life and is busy and I get that and understand. I'm not mad about that. What I am mad about is that she has promised me something and ignored that promise and says she values me but then goes back on her promise. I just Ugh.

I feel like I should just stop making plans with Karly, because I am always getting disappointed by her.

But I do not want to lose this friendship with Sofia, she understands me and we have been through a lot of the same things in life.

It just seems like all my friendships throughout my life have been like this. On and off plus I seems to gravitate towards the people that I have a lot in common in and they have mental health issues, and that maybe one of the problems. How do I not let this get to me?[/size]
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Re: I am so sick of this. - November 9th 2018, 06:37 AM

I understand you, I had a similar, in the end I decided to end it all and break with her.
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Re: I am so sick of this. - November 9th 2018, 08:09 AM

Don't waste your time for people who don't care about your friendship

I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best
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Re: I am so sick of this. - November 9th 2018, 10:04 AM

It was the same. Never decided
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Re: I am so sick of this. - November 9th 2018, 09:09 PM

i understand you! Dont waste you time
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Re: I am so sick of this. - November 10th 2018, 12:04 PM

This is very awful and obino, I myself am now experiencing a break with my girlfriend.
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Re: I am so sick of this. - November 12th 2018, 04:57 AM

Awful, I feel sorry for you. But you do not despair - this time will pass and everything will be fine!
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