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Exclamation My friend is annoyed by me - May 30th 2009, 12:13 AM

So my best friend told me Tuesaday that she was annoyed by me. And i decided to jsut leave her alone for a couple of days and give her some space. Now she is talking to like my best best friend like all the time now. I jsut texted her asking her if she was still annoyed and..heres our convo:

Me-"hey. are you still annoyed by me? jw."
Her-"Idkk. You havent talked to me"
Me-"I know. I just wanted to give you space"
Her-"okay. well what do you want me tosay?
Me-"To what how i'm not talking to you?"
her-" yeah what idk what you want me tosay?"
Me-"do you want me to still talk to you or not?"
her-yeah idc if u talk to me. i never said you couldnt.

idk if shes still annoyed at me?!?!
   
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Re: My friend is annoyed by me - May 30th 2009, 12:39 AM

Texting and MSN are probably the two most difficult ways to see if someone is annoyed at you. Best way of finding out is by asking in person... or asking to meet up with her and then finding out then.
Text messages can be thought out and can often be percieved in a number of different ways.
Face to face is always best.
   
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Re: My friend is annoyed by me - May 30th 2009, 12:49 AM

I completely agree with Paige. Texting when trying to discuss an important situation with a friend is not a good idea. It's difficult to get messages across and perceive the emotion of the other person. From what she texted to you, it is nearly impossible to tell how she is feeling and it could really go either way.

I suggest you give her a call or meet up with her sometime to talk about this face to face. That's really the best way to solve these kinds of problems.

So far, I think you did the right thing by giving her some space and by checking up on how she is feeling later. You might need to clarify again why you weren't talking and how you gave her some space so you wouldn't be annoying her. She may have gotten the wrong impression.

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Re: My friend is annoyed by me - May 30th 2009, 01:57 AM

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So my best friend told me Tuesaday that she was annoyed by me. And i decided to jsut leave her alone for a couple of days and give her some space. Now she is talking to like my best best friend like all the time now. I jsut texted her asking her if she was still annoyed and..heres our convo:

Me-"hey. are you still annoyed by me? jw."
Her-"Idkk. You havent talked to me"
Me-"I know. I just wanted to give you space"
Her-"okay. well what do you want me tosay?
Me-"To what how i'm not talking to you?"
her-" yeah what idk what you want me tosay?"
Me-"do you want me to still talk to you or not?"
her-yeah idc if u talk to me. i never said you couldnt.

idk if shes still annoyed at me?!?!
Sometimes... Texting like that is annoying. Really.


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Re: My friend is annoyed by me - May 30th 2009, 06:06 PM


Agree'd.

I Would recommend, not asking about it but just talking in school. Then relaying it back to us [or me] . Analyze all her actions, tones of voice, and eye shots. It's really the only way you can tell if some one's annoyed with you and asking will just make her more bothered.

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