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Friend having problems - June 4th 2009, 11:27 PM

My friend is having some serious issues right now.
1)Her best friend told her, over a Myspace message, that he basically hates her now. This is the best friend she considered moving to a different state for.
2)She thinks she upset her sister because said sister left without saying goodbye.
3)Her parents are blaming her for their marriage problems, and she believes them.
I'm doing my best to convince her that shes not a bad friend and that she isn't the cause of her parents problems. I think I'm having a little effect, but I also think I come on sort of like a military instructor when I'm telling her it's not her fault. Any ideas?

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Re: Friend having problems - June 4th 2009, 11:32 PM

Don't apologize for posting (:

I'm sure you don't sound like a military instructer just a concerned friend who is trying to her best to help out. Just keep telling her positive things and let her know that none of it is her fault. She'll be happy that she has somebody there to comfort her. Let her know that you'll be aviable to talk and give the best advice that you can, so on and so fourth. (:


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Re: Friend having problems - June 5th 2009, 04:23 AM

What jesus said (lulz) Just be supportive and tell her how it really is. If need be, let her know that YOU are her friend and let her know you care. You seem to be doing the right thing as far as I know.
   
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