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My Family is Just So Quirky (>_<)

That was sarcasm btw. So it started because of a minor problem (in my opinion), so when I take off my pants or underwear they're usually bunched up and since my grandma is the one who washed the whole family's clothes she might find that gross. Now, since I don't wash my own clothes I would never know that this was an actual problem but if she just told me to not bunch up my underwear then I'd be chill with it. But what did this bitch do? She took fuckin pictures of my bunched up underwear. Obviously mom got mad and demanded an answer as to why she's taking pics of my underwear, so my grandma explained that it's because my underwear is all bunched up. And she had the balls to say "well a girl shouldn't take off her underwear like this!" WELL A GROWN ADULT SHOULDN'T TAKE PICS OF SOMEONE'S UNDERWEAR???? What the fuck dude this is literally apples and potatoes type of situation. But my mom is a fucking brain dead idiot who said to me "well your grandma's right, a woman shouldn't act like that" ignoring the fact that I'm misgendered, SHE TOOK A PIC OF MY UNDERWEAR??? Like yeah what I did was wrong but dude come on its not that bad that my grandma had to take a pic of my underwear. But man I was so shocked I can't even be mad. The situation was so absurd that I was like "oh yeah just take a pic of my underwear I don't mind yeah" bruh...

To add to that, apparently my job is going bankrupt and I'm the only employee that's not fired or resigned yet and my boss couldn't pay me. Man what the fuck is up with people bruh what's wrong with everyone why is everyone braindead.

I hear ya buddy!!

Im sorry your going thru this...

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Ugh, I'd be upset if my family member took pictures of my underwear too. That's creepy! Do you think you would feel safe asking your grandmother to tell you if she has problems with your clothing (or other things) versus taking a picture of it? You can say you feel uncomfortable when she takes pictures like that but you do want to make things easier for her when she's doing the laundry.

I'm sorry about your job, too. I'd start applying other places before things do go south where they fire you, especially since you're not getting paid. Keep a paper trail of all conversations with your current job. I don't know what's legal or not in your country but you could have a legal case if they never end up paying you.

Re: My Family is Just So Quirky (>_<)

Hello there,
I'm sorry to hear what you're going through.
As Dez mentioned, if it is safe to do so, I would talk to your grandmother and mum about the situation in regards to your underwear and how it made you feel as she shouldn't be taking photos of your clothes like that.
Do you know of any local jobs that are hiring to get you through until you find something that you like?
Good luck with the job hunt and talking to your family if you decide to. :hug:

Re: My Family is Just So Quirky (>_<)

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Originally Posted by Ballsack (Post 1405515)

I am sorry to hear that this old woman is doing this to you:o. I am at a bit of a loss though. I don't understand what you mean by bunched up undies. are they looking squasked after you take them off. is there a way of showing us what you mean by bunched up. I have never had this done to my undies. Yes I am 12 years old and wear boxers and briefs but they look the same as when I take them off and put them on.:nosweat: