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really sad - June 18th 2009, 01:59 AM

I'm really sad because my best friend since 6th grade won't talk to me and I have no idea. im on her facebook but she deletes my comments and no one at her house answers when I call. I have no idea what I did and this is distressing me greatly.. I'm thinking about self harming, but know I shouldn't.


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Re: really sad - June 18th 2009, 02:15 AM

Hey Katie!

Listen to me, okay? No one is worth self harming over. Not a family member, not a friend that isn't returning your calls or deleting your facebook comments. Your better than that okay.

Maybe you could call your friend and make your number anonomous and find out what is going on? If not try not to worry about it. My brother has a wife that is kind of...witchy and well she does stuff like that to her friends for no reason at all(not saying your friend is) but my point is with time she starts talking to her friends again and everything is fine and dandy again. Just give it time and maybe things will work out.

Do you know anyone that still keeps in contact with you and that friend? If so maybe you could call them and find out what is going on.

Please do not self harm because of this. If you need someone to talk to feel free to pm or aim me.


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Re: really sad - June 18th 2009, 02:18 AM

Did anything happen to warrant this behaviour from your friend? Usually people don't act this way for no reason, especially given that you have been best friends for quite some time now.

My advice to you would be to try and talk to her about it. I understand that she's not returning your Facebook messages nor is she answering her phone. If this is the case, I'd say wait it out. Maybe something is going on right now and she doesn't want to talk to anyone? I don't know. You won't know until she talks to you again.

Wait it out and give her space; this is obviously what she wants right now. After a little bit, try to confront her again and tell her how you're feeling. I don't know what's going on with your friend but I hope you talk to her soon. Whatever you do, do not self-harm. It's not the way out of this nor will it change anything.

I could understand that you may be a bit lonely now that your best friend isn't talking to you and whatnot but there are many other people in your life that you can lean on during this time. Remember that your close family and friends are always there for you. I hope things start to work out for you shortly.


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Re: really sad - June 18th 2009, 02:18 AM

Thanks Jenna. Thats my cousins name.
I tried calling with unknown number and no one answered..
I think she's being a pain because she doesn't like my mental illness... sucks but i guess its the truth.
hey do you know what that 1800DONTCUT number is for??


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