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Someone please help me. - June 18th 2009, 10:17 PM

My dad is fighting with me for no goddamn reason. I didn't want him to watch some bullshit video about a fake health condition that he believes he has and wants sympathy for while I was in the room. Now he's stomping around the house and yelling and being a fucking asshole and telling me I can't go do the one fucking thing I do the keeps me sane, which is riding. He doesn't pay for it or anything, he just doesn't want me to go because I pissed him off.

I didn't fucking do anything. I've tried apologizing and he yelled at me for crying in front of him. I can't find a job so I can't move out and I don't know what to do. I can't talk with friends about this because my last friend abandoned me and I have no one else. My mom is just telling me to stay out of his way, like that's going to help anything. I have an hour before I need to either go to the barn or tell my friend who owns the barn that I can't go. I don't know what to do. I wish he'd quit being such a fucking asshole. I'm sorry I'm using this post to rant but I can't stop crying and freaking out when my dad won't listen to anything I say and just keeps finding new ways to insult me.

He's disowning me for being annoyed about a stupid noneducational video. This is fucking great.
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Re: Someone please help me. - June 18th 2009, 10:51 PM

Hey Elizabeth,

It's okay to get angry with your parents and it's okay to come on here and rant.

I think that you should try and ignore your father as best that you can. Do you think that you can do that? You said that you can't move out but you are 17 so that means you are going to be a senior in high school right? Are you planning on going away for college? If so try hanging on to the hope that soon enough you will be able to get away from him for good. Do you think you could do that?

Are you sure there isn't one person you could talk to? I know it might not seem like it but maybe if you really thought about it someone would come to mind; if not could you write about it in a journal or continue coming on here and getting it all out? Just don't keep it bottled up inside because bottled up feelings are bad.

I hope this helped and if you need someone to talk to feel free to pm or aim me.

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Re: Someone please help me. - June 19th 2009, 01:22 AM

Thanks for replying. I'm actually starting college this fall, but it's local. Very local. Going away for college didn't seem like a realistic plan financially when I was applying but now I'm seriously regretting that. I have a journal I write in on a regular basis and I do try to keep my mindless ranting there. I did end up going to the barn and now I feel a lot better. I'm starting to make plans about moving out, regardless of my financial stability. Probably not the best idea, but I'm working on it.
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