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Angry So Annoyed!! - June 26th 2009, 11:30 AM

This is about my stepmum who keeps shouting at me about something that isn't my fault and I don't know what to do now grr!!
I've had a part time job for a couple of years now at a bar & it's really handy because I can go back and work there every holidays from uni.
However, my stepmum is a human resource manager for this firm & she's got me a job with more hours for the summer so I said yer sounds good thanks, but she only told me about it last night & said it was starting in 2 weeks! So my rota was already done for the bar & Im working the days I was meant to be starting the job at her firm so now she's going mad at me!!! I don't understand how it is my fault at all!!! How am I meant to quit my other job just to work at her place for a month so "her position is'nt comprimised", she says she told me I was starting in 1 week when she said 2 weeks!! Keeps shouting at me now saying Ive embarrassed her & I cant ask to start a week later & Its all my fault!
I hate her! I dont know what to do now??
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Re: So Annoyed!! - June 26th 2009, 06:42 PM

I'm a bit confused by this post, so please let me know if I'm getting this all wrong. What I THINK you're trying to say is that your mom offered a summer job, which you accepted, which was supposed to start in two weeks... but then she said it was supposed to start in ONE week, and now she's angry at you because of her error?

If that's the case, tell her you've got obligations to your long-term part-time job, and that it's not your fault she couldn't keep her dates straight. Thank her for the offer, and if you want, remind her that you can begin working for her on the originally stated date. If you are so sick of the issue at this point, though, don't hesitate to bail out. Your mother needs to treat you like her daughter, not like a new employee.

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