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How to sort things out?! - June 27th 2009, 04:49 PM

Am so confused right now one of my best mates who i love to bits shes amazing and has been so great to me and helped me a lot has fallen out with me big time.

All because when we went out on weds night for out leaving do like all our course at college i ended up dancing with my ex for maybe half the night if that, but i just couldnt leave him still love him to bits and he was saying how he loves me and how he wished i lived nearer him and all this and just wanted to spend the night with him seen as had spent most of the night with my mates anyway.

Ended up leaving the club with him and walking halfway back to college lol and as we left the club my mates were already out and he said are you off with them but i said no i'll come with you so did.

Text her thursday morning asking if she was pissed off and she said yeh, text her later asking if she's ever going to speak to me and she said 'do i ever fuck my mates off for a lad, do i ever fuck our whole cors off for a lad?' i text back saying no and ive said how sorry i am what more can i say and havent heard from her since.

I cant deal with this we leave on friday and want things to be ok with us especially as we're both off back for degree next year, she's the best mate ive ever had and cant lose her but dont know how to make things right.

No point to this really just at a complete loss as to what to do
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Re: How to sort things out?! - June 27th 2009, 06:46 PM


Give her a couple of days too cool off, she'll come around I'm sure. She's just a little bit upset because she probably feels ditched. I would probably be feeling the same but I would be okay with it after awhile.

So give it a couple of days and if she doesn't contact you, give her a call.

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Re: How to sort things out?! - June 28th 2009, 01:09 AM

Hi there Liss,

I think you have done the right thing by apologizing, but really the best way to solve this is through actions and not words. Do your best to apologize and let your friend know that you are sorry that you left her at the club, but next time you go out with her, spend the time with her.

I know that you still have feelings for your ex, but friends are important. If you were supposed to spend the night with your friends, it wasn't fair of your to ditch them. It's too late to change that now, but keep it in mind the next time you go out. It's not worth losing good friends over an ex.

Just talk to your friend and try to make it up by staying with her next time. I'm sure you'll be able to work this out between you.

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