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secrets - June 30th 2009, 10:08 PM

ok so this may be complicated and long but we dont know what to do.

well I have a friend Peter who is gay, and he is really good friends with Mary (known since he was a baby) and Sam who is straight.
they once had a threesome, and sorry to be graphic but sam gave peter oral sex. so one night when under the influence peter told me and 2 other of my friends. mary knows cause she was there at the time. consequently, now all but 3 of our group of friends know.
we are all going on holiday and we are scared it is going to come out because so many people know. Sam has no idea that anyone knows and becuse he is straight and weird about things like that we are worried that someone will accidentaly say something and he will flip. because he would see it as a betrayal of peter telling us all.
we dont want this to ruin our holiday or our group of friends. I have no idea what to do.
any ideas?

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Re: secrets - July 1st 2009, 01:52 PM

Hey Holly.

I definitely don't really think anything too terrible is going to happen, and even if it does, people understand that things like that happen. I personally would imagine that it'd be too awkward to even bring it up with the way things are - that Sam is straight and that others know he's weird about stuff like this.

So, if I were you, I'd just roll with the punches and see what happens. If everyone knows this is uncomfortable, they're probably not going to bring it up. Definitely don't stress over this too much and have a relaxing vacation.

Best of luck. Hope everything turns out okay.

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