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Question Is he wanting just a friendship or more? - July 20th 2009, 11:53 PM

To start off I am in a 3 year relationship that I would not give up for the world, so this question has nothing to do with me returning possible feelings:

I have a friend we will call George, who was a very good friend to me. We were very close until last week. I had given him some needed advice about a girl who lives 3000 miles away who he is crazy about and for someone he turned into I must have feelings for him. After telling him no, he would not believe me and it almost ruined our friendship. He kept believing me saying yes would be the right answer. After finally convincing him I dont, he seemed fine. Then today he blew up at me upset I decided to talk to a friend about this..he got upset because this friend thinks he is being an egotistically jerk which he claims is not true. My question is does he have more then friendly feelings for me or was he just wanting me to what he believes as honest with myself?


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Re: Is he wanting just a friendship or more? - July 22nd 2009, 02:27 PM

Hello,

I really can't say for sure whether or not your friend is looking for something more than friendship. That is something that you should probably talk to him about or judge by how he acts towards you.

It sounds like either way he is a bit confused as to how you are feeling. You obviously are in a relationship and care about someone else, so how your friend thinks you have feelings for him is beyond me. I think that he may have confused your giving advice and caring about him as something more.

You should try and talk to this friend and get him to calm down. Let him know that you are already in a relationship and don't have feelings for anyone else. As your friend, he should respect that.

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