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Angry Me and my mom... - July 22nd 2009, 06:25 PM

Okay, so I cut, I have for about 3 years now, and I'm finally about to stop, but when I first stareted, I ended up telling my mom, thinking that she'd be there for me to talk to, and we'd be closer, but now, it's like we're SO far apart. We've only talked about it twice, and she thought it was a phase. She doesn't understand that I was and still am ADDICTED, and me and my mom used to be really close, and we don't even really talk anymore. She's always like snooping, and she doens't like anything about like me. She hates all of the music I do, either thinking it's too simple, or disgusting(when it comes to metal) and I have to sneak like half the movies I watch. I mean, she knows I know what sex is and what a dick looks like, yet she thinks that I'm too young watch movies like Super Bad(I've seen it anyway). And she thinks that I'm just so smart, like, I used to be smart, but now it's hard for me to be hardly above average, and she still pressures me!! She never understands why I'm so upset, even if it's obvious, and she just yells at me instead of actually comforting me! I wish we had a closer relationship, but I don't know what to do!
   
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Re: Me and my mom... - July 22nd 2009, 06:31 PM

That must be tough. The reason why your probably not doing as good in school is because you have the stress of your mother, and the stress of your addiction. I think you should try talking to maybe a school counselor about the relationship you have with your mother. You could also try talking to your mom about how you feel, and why you're so upset all the time. Try explaing to her that your old enough to handle a rated R movie or two. Hopefully the household can stabilize for you. Just know that I'm always here to listen help the best way I know how


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Re: Me and my mom... - July 22nd 2009, 06:52 PM

I'm not an expert but I think you should talk to your mom try to make her understand how you feel...if that doesnt work then Id advise you to talk to a counsiler ect


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