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Wow. So my bestfriend got this new cat, - August 2nd 2009, 10:09 PM

and wouldn't shut up about it. They kept going on and on about it and it was really pissing me off. I'd ask if they want to come out, they'd be like "sorry can't, I want to play with the kitten". I was upset and go to them for advice, and they wouldn't respond with anything other than "AWW THE KITTEN IS DOING SOMETHING CUTE" etc.

Overtime I got more and more pissed off, and yesterday I wished the cat would die or something so me and my friend could go back to normal.

The cat got really sick all of a sudden and died today.

Oops. I feel kind of guilty now.
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Re: Wow. So my bestfriend got this new cat, - August 2nd 2009, 10:31 PM

Just say, "Dude. You're obsessing over that cat. Are you best friends with the cat now?"


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Re: Wow. So my bestfriend got this new cat, - August 2nd 2009, 10:46 PM

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Just say, "Dude. You're obsessing over that cat. Are you best friends with the cat now?"
Too late now though, the cat's dead
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Re: Wow. So my bestfriend got this new cat, - August 2nd 2009, 10:49 PM

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Too late now though, the cat's dead

You killed it.


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Re: Wow. So my bestfriend got this new cat, - August 2nd 2009, 10:58 PM

I am sure now the cat has gone your friend might understand how they treated you.

I hope things go well.
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Re: Wow. So my bestfriend got this new cat, - August 2nd 2009, 10:59 PM

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I am sure now the cat has gone your friend might understand how they treated you.

I hope things go well.
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But they REALLY loved that cat :| I can't help but feel like a jerk
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Re: Wow. So my bestfriend got this new cat, - August 3rd 2009, 01:27 AM

Hey Eddie,

I can understand why you feel badly right now, but you didn't do anything to your friend's cat. You may not have liked it very much, but you didn't kill it! Try not to feel bad about it.

People often obsess over new things, and I'm sure your friend didn't mean to push you away. If he decides to get another cat, just explain to him that you would like to be able to spend some time with him too and that cats need a break and some alone time every now and again.

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Re: Wow. So my bestfriend got this new cat, - August 3rd 2009, 02:16 AM

i agree with nat, talking about it is the best way to solve an issue of this kind.


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Re: Wow. So my bestfriend got this new cat, - August 5th 2009, 01:08 AM

I agree with Josh, so in other words I agree with Nat.
You didn't kill the cat, you were just frustrated because your friend was obsessing over a new pet.
   
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