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All Of This Over A Stupid Guy - January 21st 2009, 05:57 PM

alright, so my friend has been crazy about this guy for a while now, and me and my friends have been trying to convince her that this guy is wrong for her and will hurt her. he has herpes and uses every girl that hes with. my girlfriend is best friends with her, and after she found out how out of control my friend was getting about this guy, she confronted her about it. after the confrontation, she became hella pissed at me, my girlfriend, and our other friend that we're close with.

all we're trying to do is protect her from this guy because we know fer sure that he is gonna hurt her, but she just wont listen to anyone. what can i do to convince her that she is making a huge mistake?


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Re: All Of This Over A Stupid Guy - January 21st 2009, 06:20 PM

I had a situation like like this with one of my friend before she had a boyfriend and he kept hurting her and no matter what any of us said to her she would just keep going back to him untill she relized shes just going to get hurt over and over again.

Most people when there really crazy about a person they wont listen to what ever everbody else is telling them because they think its all lies and that you just dont want to see her happy. My advise would be try and tell her one more time as nicley as possible and if she still doesnt believe you as much as its going to hurt you seeing your friend getting hurt, you just have to let her make her own mastake and be there for her when shes comes crying to you because she found out that everything you guys told her was the truth.


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Re: All Of This Over A Stupid Guy - January 21st 2009, 06:47 PM

Hi Caitlyn,

That does sound difficult to explain to someone. I would suggest talking to her once more, with your girlfriend and other friend with you, and just explain that you care about her and that is why you are warning her. Also, since the problem is with a disease as well, at least suggest to her to be safe.

Just know that she needs to make her own decisions too. All you can do is be a good friend and warn her against it. Eventually she will find out the truth for herself.

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