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best friend. /: - September 7th 2009, 04:33 AM

my best friend is choosing her boyfriend over me,
and it's making her do things, that she really shouldn't be doing.
i'm worried about her, and i try to tell her.
but she gets all defensive and pulls the "love" crap on me.
"you do anything for the one you love."
yes, you do. but she shouldn't be doing those things.
she knows she'll get in huge trouble if she's caught.
i'm just worried, but she doesn't understand.
i'm being left out.
she already knows i'm jealous that her and boyfriend are closer than we are now, but it's like she's completely taking me out of the picture.

maybe we should just stop being best friends.
it might be better.
she can have fun with her boyfriend.

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Re: best friend. /: - September 7th 2009, 06:52 PM

I understand how you must feel and I feel sorry for you, the same thing happened to me as well.
First I must say, don't just stop being best friends. It wouldn't be good for both of you. And even if you're angry at her, don't do anything you would regret later.

It's not right that your best friend acts like this. She shouldn't do things that would get her in trouble. I don't know what kind of things they are, but still it's no good.

Maybe try to go to her house and discuss the topic with her in a kind way. Sit down together and tell her that you are worried and you don't want her to be in trouble. And you should tell her that you are happy for her but also very worried. I think if she understands you things will get better.

If she doesn't understand, wait for her.
Love ends but friendship lasts forever.

I hope things will get better (:

Bella x

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before it gets any better we're headed for a cliff.
And in the free fall
I will realise I'm better off
when I hit the bottom.

this is how we dance when they try to take us down.

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Keep On Moving. Keep The Faith.
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