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if this is not hell, then I do not know what is - September 9th 2009, 12:06 PM

I thought that people who had no money to eat were sad miserable people.
I envey them.
I graduated high school with an average of 79% a good one, but bad compared with my previous years.
this year was a hell of a trouble, my dad cheated on my mom (again), they went threw fights , he sexually abused me and when I told my mother she said that I am wrong and started treating me like a slut,and he wasted our savings gambelling.
Now, I need to go to university, they refuse they want me repeat they year, all the day long they are yelling and shouting calling me 'looser', 'failure', ...........etc, calling me to 'discuss my situation' which usually ends up with fightings and me being told how ' I must be punished (physically) in order to bring my mind back'.
I am used with all the words and threats, but controlling my future is killing me, I usually end up yelling like them but I am always the wrong one because 'I remember' I must forget their mistakes, keep remembering mine, feel low, humiliated and accept that I have no rights, back to the country I am in, my father is my guardian until I am 18 and he is controlling every thing in my life. and some after that (he can be from travelling my entire life) what shall I do to deal with them? how am I supposed to live in such house? prison has more freedom and dignity than this place.

note: no A+ scores means I have no rights and no emotions, I must be dealt like crap all day long.
note: even though I became as senseless as crap, I never open a chat with them they INSIST to make up fights and reasons to argue.

If ur at the bottom then cheer it only can go better
If you are lonely then smile
You do not need them to stay alive
If they hurt you bad ,been hurt worst and every thing is just pushing u down...
And even though you are strong enough to survive

p.m me.........I quite like it

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Re: if this is not hell, then I do not know what is - September 9th 2009, 04:18 PM

Hey there,
I am really sorry you're going through this, and I just want you to know that you don't deserve it. I'm sure you're aware of that, but please don't forget your rights, stand up for yourself when you can, and most definitely talk to someone directly. If your dad abused you, you should tell the police. I'm not sure how old you are, whether you could live on your own or not, but from what I've heard about your situation, I would really recommend reaching out, talking to someone and getting yourself out of there. Is there anyone else you could live with? I know it's a tough, life-changing decision, but from what you've said, your parents don't sound like suitable guardians at all.
Take care, and I hope things get better for you.

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